Friday, April 26, 2013

辛晓琪的《领悟》

第一次听辛晓琪的《领悟》,应该是1994年或1995年。 那时候广播电台每天晚上有个叫阿瑞的主持的流行歌曲节目,会介绍一些新歌。 当时讲的是辛晓琪感情不顺,由李宗盛大哥亲自提笔创作了这首歌。 听说辛晓琪录制此歌的时候痛哭不已,根本唱不完整,可以说《领悟》对她的内心世界诠释得很透。 第一次听《领悟》,就觉得很好听,结果此歌在大陆一炮而红,代表了太多女人对不顺爱情的无奈和领悟。




下面是我在网上找来的《领悟》的创作背景故事:


辛晓琪1987年至今出道26年,凭借《领悟》、《味道》、《女人何苦为难女人》等经典情歌陪伴了一代人的成长,她的歌淋漓尽致的诠释世间百态的爱情,总能把情歌唱得直抵人心,让听歌的男人女人一次又一次得以灵魂共鸣,人们总是能在她的歌曲里找到自己的故事,印证自己的爱情。
而对于《领悟》这首歌,辛晓琪说:“这首歌改变了我的一生,一般的演出我是绝对不唱这首歌,这首歌是个妖怪,演唱的时候,人生一幕一幕会不断的涌现在眼前,所以我每次唱这首歌唱到一半的时候就会流泪......
19年前的1994年,李宗盛听了辛晓琪的心情故事,然后为辛晓琪写下了《领悟》这首歌,该歌发行后第一天便狂卖2万张,辛晓琪一夜成名,之后不到半年,就趁热打铁推出了《味道》专辑,牢固了辛晓琪在华语乐坛的天后地位。
辛晓琪说其实从未跟李宗盛过自己的心事,“他只是知道我不开心”,李宗盛写的,是当时他自己的感情纠葛,但歌词却正好碰对了辛晓琪的心事。因为那个时候她刚刚结束了一段他达10年的感情,对方是一个远方亲戚,家族聚会的时候一见钟情,他当时已经是一个大学生,年龄差距蛮大的,他帅帅的,弹得一手好吉他,是当时很多小女生心目中的白马王子。毕业之后,两个人决定要携手共度一生,但却没想到结婚才一年多,男方竟然外遇了
这段感情结束辛晓琪痛苦了好长一段时间,虽然演绎《领悟》已经是两年后了,但是记忆仍然很深刻,拍《领悟》MV的时候,本来没有哭的镜头,但是当时一想起那些美好的时光,眼泪就控制不住了一个劲的往下掉,导演临时抢拍了一组后来我们在MV里看到晓琪哭着唱歌的那些感人镜头。 
一段失败婚姻,伤得辛晓琪好痛,当时她正面临事业上的低潮,加上先生的背叛,让她一度很自闭,辛晓琪把自己关在家里头疗伤,两三年之后,李宗盛为她写了这首《领悟》,她重新走出来,但是绝口不提曾经有过这一段婚姻。1999年辛晓琪和小她15岁的歌迷陷入热恋,交往了3年,发现这个小男友居然也劈腿.....
谈起这些情事,辛晓琪并没有过多留恋,反而用一种“感恩”的心态来谢谢那些年她爱过的男人,辛晓琪说:“我其实很感谢有这样的经历,让我可以体验人生。情感这个东西,你有经历的话,可以把自己的感受放在歌里,这样有自己的灵魂放在里面,但如果是"一张白纸"来演唱的话,可能没有办法唱到心里头去。”而对于未来的感情,辛晓琪更愿意相信“顺其自然”,“我现在挺幸福的,有工作可以忙,朋友相聚的时候也很快乐,其实除了感情,这个世界上还有很多值得珍惜的东西。”

Thursday, April 25, 2013

Samsung Galaxy S II Skyrocket Offers Several Features That an iPhone 4S Cannot Match

I got an AT&T Samsung Galaxy S II Skyrocket LTE with Ice Cream Sandwich a few months back and I recently updated it with the official Jelly Bean release from Samsung last week. After a few months of usage, I discovered several cool features of the Galaxy SII that my iPhone 4S just cannot offer:
  • The Galaxy SII can function as a heater. When I feel cold, I simply turn on the phone, play a couple of apps or make a couple of phone calls. In about 5 minutes, the phone will heat itself to a temperature warm enough to make my hands comfortable. 
  • The Galaxy SII takes a solid >6 hours to charge from 0% to 100% battery life, with very light usage during this period (NO phone call or Internet surfing – only standby mode with wifi and network connected). This means if I hates someone, I can retaliate the person by charging my phone at their house. Surely they would really hate me after staying their house for 6 hours, and their electricity bill will drive them crazy. 
  • Occasionally, with the phone fully charged, the Galaxy S II likes to reset its battery by completely draining to 0% and shutting itself during a night of standby. This happened a few times on the nights right before my business trips. That made my morning departs more adventures than the boring, 99% charged iPhone 4S. 
  • After fully charged, the Galaxy S II can lose over 10% of its battery power in 1 hour, just in standby mode. In heavy usage, the phone can drain out its battery in about 2.5 hours. When the Galaxy S II is plugged in, with Google Map turned on, it can draw more power than the power supplied from my car’s cigarette lighter or a laptops USB port (500mA). When I commute outside the office, I can excuse myself to attend only one conference call in the morning, or I can refuse to attend any conference call scheduled in the afternoon because the phone will only last about half a day with light usage. 


  • Thanks to all the Android apps with “back door” data access, I started receiving more and more Spam emails, SMS text messages, robot phone calls, pop up App and subscription recommendations and other weird stuff through the phone. That just makes my life more interesting when periodically a stranger calls and says hello. 
  • Surely Google has made Jelly Bean a lot more stable, compared to the phone’s original Ice Cream Sandwich when I just had it. Ice Cream Sandwich was actually more fun because sometimes it likes to focus in a particular thought for a moment and refuses to answer me. A kick-in-the-ass (i.e. reboot) once in a while is necessary. 
  • When I travel to Asia offices, the Galaxy S II cannot see some of our offices' Wifi networks in range. It’s a perfect opportunity for me to show off that my phone supports 4G and has international roaming plans. 
  • Compared to the iPhone 4S, which is considered by many as “boring” and “no innovation”, I like to think that the Galaxy SII is a Beta operating system (after the Jelly Bean update) running on an Alpha hardware build, that fully satisfies my ego as a gadget enthusiast. 

Friday, February 22, 2013

Google Pixel Chromebook is a Product Marketing Failure


Abstract – Product marketing defines the “value of existence” for a product. Bad product marketing usually leads to a product failure measured by performance, industrial design and/or customer adoption rate. Google engineers made a marvelous hardware, the Pixel, with no marketing IQ inside. The result is a beautiful hardware that few consumers want to pay for.

Google just announced a high-end Chromebook that costs $1299USD as a “base” model. From an industrial design perspective, this notebook is well made. Looking at the hardware, the Chromebook Pixel is a strong contender to Apple’s Macbook Pro. Yet, I believe the Pixel will sell even less units than the Microsoft Surface. This is NOT just because the Pixel costs $1299 as a starting price – every product has a price tag, high or low, what matters is if the product’s price justifies the values it brings to the customer. This is a fundamental question when a product is defined – what is the product’s value proposition? The Pixel is good example of Google’s Product Marketing failure – as an engineering-driven company, I felt good product marketing practices was not applied to the Pixel’s definition. Someone inside Google had the ego of making a beautiful Chromebook to compete against Apple, only to forget the purpose of existence or a Chrome, and who the product was made for. 


Chromebook’s “product philosophy” is to let users live in the Cloud – reducing the overhead for a localized computing system and run everything off a browser or a simple operation system. This results a much simplified hardware system with fast bootup, higher mobility and even longer battery life. The Chromebook’s value proposition is much stronger than a Netbook because a Netbook relies on localized computation power, which is never enough when the Netbook wave was high. A Chromebook is simply a hardware user interface. To some extent, the Chromebook hardware is disposable – the hardware facilitates tasks, but it has “no value” as a standalone unit. The damage of losing a Chromebook is little, as the user’s data all sits in the Cloud – grab a new Chromebook, and off you go.

If you believe this product value proposition stated above, then you would also realize and agree that the Google Pixel is on the wrong path. Using an analogy, if a Chromebook is a facilitator, like a taxi that hauls people around and is disposable (i.e. you don’t have to always ride the same taxi), then why would you need a taxi that is based off a Ferrari or Lamborghini?

If we ditch the “philosophy” and consider the Pixel as a laptop computer, we then need another candidate to compare to, the Apple Macbook Pro. Imagine you are given the budget to choose only one device, the Pixel or the Macbook Pro, and the purpose of selecting one of these devices is to use it for both work and personal leisure, which one would you select? I believe a “logical” person would choose the Macbook Pro. Being “logical”, that person chooses Macbook Pro because it is more useful than the Pixel, not because that the Macbook Pro is made by Apple. The Macbook Pro is a real personal computer with a complete operating system. There are many productivity software designed for this operating system. It is well construction, relatively light weight (thus mobility), and has a good battery life. The Macbook Pro does NOT rely on Internet connection and the Cloud to “survive”, and is a fully functional standalone unit. On the other hand, the Pixel or most Chromebook require Internet connections to work, and try that when you travel to a region with slow or no Internet connectivity.

I should point out that a Macbook Pro is not cheap. There are many alternatives (Windows or Mac OS) that deliver comparable usefulness at lower prices. So the Macbook Pro is certainly targeted at “power users” that has the budget and need the performances it can deliver. If the Macbook Pro is stripped to its operation system with few compatible software to choose from (e.g. Adobe Photoshop), there will be very few people buy the Macbook Pro, no matter how beautiful it is – Does this sound like a Google Pixel?

Forget about philosophy and productivity, how about “cool factor”? Sure, the Pixel is very well made. It has a display resolution higher than the Macbook Pro’s Retina display. It has a good hinge (try to impress your girlfriend with that – “honey, check out this Pixel’s hinge”) and a fancy blink color LED one the back of its lid – would you buy it if you are again given the choice of a Google Pixel or the Macbook Pro. I think if you want a date picked up at a local Starbucks, carrying a Macbook Pro would give you higher chance.

So who will use the Google Pixel, on a daily basis? In my opinion, those are Google employees – they make a lot of money, and they get the Chromebook for free. After all, they don’t want to carry a Macbook Pro in their office, they hate the $299 Chromebook products that do not deliver enough computation performance and sex appeals, and they do not need to pony up $1299 from their pockets to get a well-made hardware (the company pays for your PC, right?). Indeed, I believe if Google asks their employees to pay for their computers, most people would select a Windows or Mac PC – only those developed the Pixel might choose the Pixel. There you have it – Google employs 37,544 employees at the end of Q4 2014, and that’s the total number of Pixel that Google will “sell” in my opinion. Of course, not everyone working at Google will use the Pixel, so the difference is made up by some Nerds who don’t work at Google but have enough spare money to pay for it.

In a nutshell, for $1299, the Pixel is a well-made laptop hardware that is only productive with an Internet connection. For true mobility, the user needs to pay more for a LTE-enabled device, in addition to the monthly fees charged by the carriers. At this price, the Pixel is arguably the most expensive laptop in the market today, measured by productivity or mobility or even sex appeal.

Imagine you’re the product marketing manager for Pixel, how will you justify the above to a group of audiences that review your business case? Wait, this is Google, maybe they don’t need product marketing or business case.

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Thursday, December 06, 2012

Sunday, November 11, 2012

HMS Victory



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"HMS Victory - 全世界最古老,有250年历史,是英国历史的骄傲"

HMS Warrior



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"在英国维多利亚女皇统治的年代,这就算当时世界最先进的航空母舰"
(taken at Gosport Ferry (Portsmouth Terminal))

Several impressive ships in this picture



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"Several impressive ships in this picture"
(taken at Spinnaker Tower)

Spinnaker Tower viewed from direct below



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"Spinnaker Tower viewed from direct below"
(taken at Spinnaker Tower)

Spinnaker Tower



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"左下角是水雷"

Gunwharf Quays



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"No, it's NOT Superman"
(taken at Gunwharf Quays)

Portsmouth City Hall



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"Portsmouth City Hall"
(taken at Guildhall Square)

The London Eye and County Hall



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"That's another view of London Eye and County Hall...in the (freak'n chilling) night!"
(taken at The London Eye)

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Did Samsung copy Apple? I think so!

I was reading a blog of RealDan called "Enough with the Samsung bashing", which defends the Apple vs. Samsung lawsuit that Apple claims Samsung copied its products (iPhone and iPad).

I couldn't help to leave a quick comment, but I thought I would share my view in my blog as well:

For the "did Samsung copy Apple?" question, I look at this from an abstract level: Consider A and B are two students taking an exam with only one question (consider the exam is about solving consumer problems). They both got stuck at the question. A took it on by himself, thought really hard, made a few mistakes, and scored 80% on that exam. At the exam, B constructed a few thoughts, but rejected all his ideas. (Assume) he had an opportunity of checking on A's answer before the end of the exam ("looked over the should"), and he liked A's approach of the problem (before A finished the answer). B continued to solve the problem based on A's idea, but added his thoughts to complete the answer. B scored 95% on that exam.

In the above scenario, I think both Apple and Android fanboys would agree that B cheated A during the exam. However, if one ONLY compares the scores, no one would believe B cheated on A at the exam because B had a higher score! But sometimes, science or engineering solutions only takes one simple idea to make a huge difference. Everyone who's taken an exam had that "Oh, aha" or "Duh!" moment - you only need a "tip" or a "reminder" to get a complex puzzle solved.

Although Samsung offers more phones to consumers than Apple, most of their touchscreen phones and pads can come out from a single platform. Given Samsung's engineering resources, they literally can make hundreds of phone models per year, leveraging a single platform seed (e.g. "cheated") - adding buttons, changing button sizes and positions, changing screen sizes and display technologies, etc. But the originality remains in single digit.




Comparing Apple's iPad vs. Samsung's Galaxy Tab, the simple home button, the USB connector and charger, the tight software interaction between Apps...it only takes a few tweaks to improve and make products intuitive for the end user. Yet, these ideas take years of thoughts and experiments. Apple might have been cooking some prototypes for years. When they finally "got it" (as Steve Jobs said), Samsung and other mobile phone OEMs just take the ideas as is.

Granted, I must note that the South Korean market was way ahead of the U.S. for smart phones. Touchscreen phones were common (resistive-technology) and existed long before the iPhone was introduced. However, the hardware was still cumbersome and the software was not as intuitive (e.g. slide to unlock, and click on a phone number in an email to dial, etc.). Apple solved these user issues with a companion industrial design that's unique. I also should add that Samsung never had a "pad" before the iPad was launched, so no one should argue that the "pad" was Apple's idea.

Most importantly, arguing about a patent or an intuition is not about the exact screen size or the thickness of the phone, it's about how the solutions approach the problems and solves them. Just like the exam scenario I presented above.

Did Samsung copy Apple's industrial design? I believe so - they added own thoughts, made more phones, perhaps scored higher in the exam, but they copied and cheated on the originality nevertheless.

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

李开复和方舟子之争,对与错的宏观价值在哪里?

这段时间,微博上炒李开复和方舟子的事情掀起了一个小高潮。 我对此有些个人的想法,借此发表一下。

方舟子被国内(某些)人称作是“打假专家”。也许他确实有些作为,我且不去理会。最近方舟子在微博上说李开复的自传里中英文翻译不附,我也不去谈李开复是否有理,因为我想谈的,不是谁对谁错的问题,我只想和有兴趣的读者分享一下对这件事情的“哲学”看法。

当年,美国前总统克林顿出现性丑闻的时候,我不太理解“美国群众”的看法 – 当时美国很多喊声是让克林顿下台。 我和朋友讨论这件事的时候,他们的看法是,美国人让总统下台,是因为他在大庭广众之下对着电视机,对着美国人撒谎了。(后来才知道克林顿还半夜打电话给苹果的乔布斯求建,乔布斯叫他“坦白从宽”。)

在我看来,“总统”的职责是搞好国际政治关系,搞好国家建设,搞好人民的生活水平。这是“总统”这个职位的“工作岗位职责”。管理一个国家,也许像管理一个公司,各有分工。 如果一个人在公司里的表现出色,没有犯“原则上”的错误,那么他“下了班”后私生活怎么过是他的自由。 (我要先强调,“私生活”应该不包括贪污腐败,因为如果一个国家是个公司,那么贪污有损公司的利润,所以算是“原则上”的错误。) 在克林顿在位的八年,美国这个国家的经济和政治实力在国际上和历史上创造了一个顶峰。 国家几乎没有赤字,而且美国人的平均收入和支出比例非常高, 很多人都有工作,可谓“欣欣向荣”。 虽然有人可以说克林顿是幸运的,他客观上赶上了美国高科技发展最灿烂的几年,可是这一切不能说和克林顿的外交政治和经济政策没有关系。所以说,克林顿算是美国历史上的一个“好”总统,他有尽到自己的“工作岗位职责”。 所以当时在我看来,克林顿的性丑闻,他的私生活,应该和政治没有直接关系。 是的,他对着电视机向美国人撒谎了,可是只有傻瓜才相信政治家在公众面前甚至电视机前不撒谎。 其实,恰恰相反,我认为在公众面前演戏是一个政治家的必有能力。

我谈克林顿和“李开复对方舟子”的话题是否有关连? 我们再回来谈李开复。 首先,李开复是去大陆赚钱的。(如果有人以为李开复是因为自己为中华文化而贡献去了,那你就天真了。) “风险投资”在美国的资本主义制度下已经是玩了几十年的游戏了,但在迅速发展的中国市场还是一个相对比较新颖的商业模式。李开复以一个“导师”的角色开“创新工厂”,然后招来很多大陆的精英,以“孵化”的形式进行“风投”,这是很聪明的。 一方面,李赚到了钱,但关键的是他让那些聪明的年轻人也赚到了钱。 另一方面,他的形象(我在这里不讨论个人看法,也不定论“好”与“坏”)和公司的影响,让很多国内聪明,实干,却找不到创业方向和扶持的年轻人有了奋斗的目标。“风险投资”在九几年就已经进入了大陆市场,但是只有极少数的人懂得。 “李开复”的名字让很多想创业的人关注他,关注这个商业模式。

所以,宏观上来讲,李开复和他的创新工厂对中国的教育和年轻人的鼓励是有积极作用的。这是一个无法估算的“正面效应”(相信很多懂社会经济学的人能够同意我的看法。)这就和我前面举的克林顿例子联系上了 – 他们都有自己在社会上的角色,在宏观上都对社会有正面影响。那么,剩下的那些“鸡毛蒜皮”的小事真的那么重要吗?在我看来,那些参与其中,为各方争辩(翻历史,确定中英文翻译)和加油鼓励的人多少有些“短眼光”。

李开复在美国名牌大学毕业,在苹果和微软都有过经历(不论他是否和乔布斯还有盖茨共事过),这些社会机构和公司本身就是一个“过滤系统” – 只有(相对的)很出色的精英才能进入,这些经历就已经足够证明一个人的实力。 相比,某些人在美国密歇根州大学拿了个博士,却没有被聘或者进入美国的顶级医疗或药物公司,拿高薪。这就说明博士和博士是有不同的。

另外,假设方舟子的分析完全是正确的,假设李开复对全世界的中国人撒谎了,假设李开复的形象一跌千丈,那么,中国那些想创业的年轻人换来了什么? 当年美国人说克林顿撒谎了,民主党竞选败了,换来了十年的战争和负债。(现在很多美国人都抢着读克林顿的新书。)(某些)中国人想把李开复“搞下去”,那么他们想用什么来替换他的政治和经济形象? 所以,吹没吹牛,吹了多少都是次要的,都是鸡毛蒜皮的。 宏观上,对社会经济有贡献的,就可以算是“好”的,这些产物上是否有瑕疵,瑕疵的大小,相对而言(再次强调是“相对的”)没有那么重要。

我相信很多人不赞同我的看法。这些人会认为政治家撒谎是不可原谅的,(假设)在自传里吹牛是不可原谅的。 很多人喜欢去找瑕疵,其实那是很容易的,而且从别人身上找毛病舒服。 但是很多人忽视了创造一个带瑕疵的成功的难处。在我看来,可悲的是社会上总有那些小人,妒富嫉贤,为了己利而不择手段,自己不成就去拆别人的台。 但更可悲的,是那些社会中被舆论夹在其中的人,其实他们自己的利益因那些小人而损了,却不得而知。


Friday, November 18, 2011

李宗盛的歌


最近听李宗盛的《给自己的歌》,忽然想起以前就想写出的品论。 

听大哥的歌,听的不是音乐,而是去品味人生。 李宗盛的歌,对很多人来说是脍炙人口,而对我这个80年代来说,是哼着大哥的歌长大的。 从《明明白白我的心》,《我是一只小小鸟》,到《凡人歌》,从《鬼迷心窍》,《当爱已成往事》,到《爱要怎么说出口》, 从《伤痕》,《领悟》,到《梦醒时分》,从《伤心地铁》,《爱如潮水》,到《我是真的爱你》。  李宗盛的歌词和作曲不追求华丽的音韵和浮华的词句,它们体现的,是一个成熟的男人对生活的感受,对人生的感慨,对爱情的执着和对往事的回味。 品赏李宗盛的歌,就像是吃一颗奇异的果子,刚放到嘴里,噘嚼无味,然而过了一会,就开始尝到酸甜苦辣咸,这种特殊的感受,让那些内心敏感的人反复揣摩,吃了一颗又一颗,听了一遍又一遍,时而开心而乐,时而犹然而泣,时而感慨而叹,时而惆怅而滞。


我想,曾经有幸握过大哥的手,得到他的签名,对我来说是一见荣幸。 但我更希望能有机会告诉他,他的诸多作品影响了我的人生。 谢谢他的作品给我带来的快乐,让我能找到诠释感情的空间。 在我少年执狂的时候,李宗盛的歌指点了我很多人生的方向; 在我因情而伤的时候,我曾经哼唱他的歌敷治心的疮口。而在我回首人生的时候,大哥已经有好多歌曲帮我诠释了对人生的感慨。 在流行乐坛里,没有几个人能够像李宗盛这样用简单的词句把生活描述的如此生动而真实,所以人们才如此喜欢李宗盛的作品。



随便找一个90年后的来问,很多人也许都不知道李宗盛是谁,让我感觉自己渐渐地变成了“老一辈”。 然而“老一辈“就”老一辈“吧。 也许等90年后的人到了而立之年,他们忽然听到大哥的歌,虽已时境变迁,但那些经典的歌曲仍然会让他们感到震撼。 如果有一天有人问我李宗盛是谁,我会为他或她点一首《你像个孩子》:

你象个孩子似的
要我为你写首歌
一点也不理会
会有好多的苦从我心中重新来过
重新来过重新来过重新来过
而写歌容易写你太难
怕如果写了
因为想要你而有的苦苦坚持
就要被你统统发现被你统统发现
已经做了的决定
是不会再更改的了
自己也很清楚
会有很多的苦会从我心中重新来过
重新来过重新来过重新来过
而决定容易
可是等待太难
怕如果等了
这些年学会的一点点成熟稳重
就要被你通通化解
被你通通化解被你统统化解
工作是容易的赚钱是困难的
恋爱是容易的成家是困难的
相爱是容易的相处是困难的
决定是容易的可是等待是困难的
你象个孩子似的要我为你写首歌
你象个孩子似的要我为你写首歌
你象个孩子似的要我为你写首歌
你象个孩子似的

Sunday, November 13, 2011

李宗盛《给自己的歌》

李宗盛《给自己的歌》

 

想得却不可得 
你奈人生何 
该舍的舍不得 
只顾著跟往事瞎扯 
等你发现时间是贼了 
它早已偷光你的选择 
爱恋不过是一场高烧 
思念是紧跟著的好不了的咳 
是不能原谅 
却无法阻挡 
恨意在夜里翻墙 
是空空荡荡 
却嗡嗡作响 
谁在你心里放冷枪 
旧爱的誓言像极了一个巴掌 
每当你记起一句就挨一个耳光 
然后好几年都问不得闻不得女人香 
往事并不如烟 
是啊 
在爱里念旧也不算美德 
可惜恋爱不像写歌 
再认真也成不了风格 
我问你见过思念放过谁呢 
不管你是累犯或是从无前科 
我认识的只有那合久的分了 
没见过分久的合 
岁月 你别催 
该来的我不推 
该还的还 该给的我给 
岁月 你别催 
走远的我不追 
我不过是想道尽原委 
谁能告诉我这是什麼呢? 
他的爱在心里埋藏了抹平了几年了仍有余威 
是不能原谅 
却无法阻挡 
爱意在夜里翻墙 
是空空荡荡 
却嗡嗡作响 
谁在你心里放冷枪 
旧爱的誓言像极了一个巴掌 
每当你记起一句就挨一个耳光 
然后好几年都问不得闻不得女人香 
想得却不可得 
你奈人生何 
想得却不可得 
情爱里无智者